AI-Powered Gaslight Detection

Unbiased AI insight into what really happened.

Upload chats to get an impartial, AI-powered relationship analysis.Completely confidential.

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A fictional example of what the detector highlights.

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How It Works Upload Your Chat, ai analysis, get insights.

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How It Works

3 quick steps, then the AI does the heavy lifting for you.

1. Upload Your Chat

Export your conversation from Telegram or WhatsApp and upload it here. Your data is processed securely and never stored.

2. AI Analysis

Our AI analyzes communication patterns, detects gaslighting behaviors, and identifies relationship dynamics using scientific methods.

3. Get Insights

Receive a comprehensive report with scores, evidence, and explanations to help you understand what really happened.

REAL STORIES, CHANGED PERSPECTIVES

People who used this to understand their chats better

After a long breakup

"I had screenshots and opinions from friends, but this was the first time I saw our whole conversation laid out calmly. It helped me stop obsessing over one fight and see the longer pattern."

“Anna”, 28

In a new relationship

"I used it not to prove anything to my partner, but to check my own reactions. The report showed where I escalated or shut down, which was uncomfortable — but useful."

“Marco”, 34

Questioning gaslighting

"I was scared it would "judge" me or my ex. Instead it felt like a neutral mirror. It didn't tell me what to do, but it gave me language to describe what I was feeling."

“Lea”, 31

After toxic relationship

"Finally, I had proof that I wasn't crazy. The patterns were clear — constant contradictions, blame-shifting. It gave me the confidence to move on."

“Sara”, 29

Trying to improve

"I wanted to understand why my relationships kept failing. The analysis showed my communication patterns — defensive, dismissive. Hard to hear, but necessary."

“David”, 35

Long-distance relationship

"We were fighting over text constantly. This helped me see that most conflicts started with misunderstandings, not malice. We both needed to communicate better."

“Yuki”, 27

Post-divorce clarity

"I needed closure. Reading through years of messages was overwhelming, but the AI analysis highlighted the key patterns. It wasn't about blame — it was about understanding."

“Sofia”, 32

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